Shifting the blame to your sons
Dear Annie: I often see letters in your column from mothers-in-law with various complaints about their daughters-in-law. The themes are familiar: “She never invites me to activities.” “She doesn’t take pictures of me with the baby.” “She won’t let me see my grandchild.” What I find myself wondering is: Why is all of the frustration directed toward the daughters-in-law? If these women want to be included, invited or photographed, why aren’t they turning to their own sons? It seems that the burden of keeping extended family relationships warm and well-managed is ...