Stains on napkins are memories of gatherings
Dear Heloise: I am a 75-year-old woman who enjoys setting a pretty table for special holidays, and I like using cloth napkins on such occasions. I have no biological children but frequently entertain nieces, nephews, and other family members and friends. Usually, most of them set the cloth napkin (which is secured in a holiday-themed napkin ring) aside for fear of staining it. This past Thanksgiving, I asked then to “humor me” by actually removing the napkin ring, placing the napkins on their laps, and wiping their mouths with it if need be. I told them that any stains would be a ...