You might be missing the love right in front of you
Valentine’s Day arrives every year with its cards, flowers, and expectations. It asks us, quietly and sometimes loudly, to measure love. Did you say the words? Did you buy the thing? Did you remember the date? For many people, that measuring stick is narrow. When love doesn’t show up in the form we expect, we’re tempted to believe it didn’t show up at all. That’s where we get it wrong. People express love in different ways, shaped by habit, upbringing, temperament, and experience. Some people are fluent with words. Others are not. Some say “I love you” easily and often. ...