Making peace without answers
Dear Annie: My husband hasn’t heard a word from his mother in over 20 years –– not even after the deaths of two of her sons. She’s now 94, and we recently heard she’s still alive, still isolated, and still unwilling to speak to him or anyone else in the family. It breaks my heart. I remember the early years of our marriage –– sending her birthday cards from our kids, calling on holidays, even driving hours just to drop off a homemade pie and say hello. Sometimes she’d answer the door, sometimes not. There was never any warmth, only silence or disapproval. Eventually, ...