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‘Beneath the Starlit Sky’ by Debbie Pecht Mianulli is available on Amazon.

VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. — Debbie Pecht Mianulli never planned to tell her story. For years, she carried the weight of silence, busy with moves from one military base to another, a growing family and the quiet ache of a marriage unraveling.

Now, sitting at her kitchen table in Virginia Beach, she holds a finished copy of her first book–a story born from the hills between McVeytown and Pine Glenn, shaped by decades as a Navy wife and finished in the light of hard-won self-acceptance.

Her memoir, “Beneath the Starlit Sky,” speaks to anyone who has ever felt stuck or doubted their own worth. “Don’t wait to leave a relationship that is not bringing you happiness, that causes you to doubt yourself and your worth,” Mianulli says. “You are worthy of happiness and so much more.”

The book traces her journey from small-town Pennsylvania through overseas duty stations and into the uncertain territory of life after divorce. By laying bare her struggles and growth, Mianulli hopes to reach people who need reassurance that change is possible and healing is real. Her journey is a reminder that the hardest stories to tell often help others the most.

Mianulli’s path to authorship started with a push from family and friends. “I was inspired to write my first book by family members and friends I have met throughout my journey,” she says.

Their encouragement nudged her to take the leap, though it took years before she was ready to put her life on paper. “I always had it in the back of my mind to write, but I always made excuses, thinking I may hurt this person or that person. Somewhere during all this, I decided that I was going to focus on myself. I noticed I was worried about everyone else, and that was holding me back.”

Once she began, the words came in a rush. “After my divorce of 37 years, which was devastating, and I had the chance through therapy to begin the healing process, I finally liked who I was becoming.” She describes the writing process as both “sweet and salty, depending on who you ask on any given day,” but above all, it felt exhilarating. “I started writing my book, and nothing could stop me. It took me nine months to complete it.”

Growing up between McVeytown and Pine Glenn, Mianulli’s roots run deep in the valleys and creeks of Central Pennsylvania. She remembers big family gatherings and days spent outdoors.

“I am so fortunate to have grown up where I did. I’m proud of where I came from. I had two wonderful parents that I miss every day. I didn’t just have brothers and a sister–we had aunts and uncles, and a ton of cousins on both sides of our family that were a huge part of our lives. Family was everything, and we all did so much together.”

But travel and change would shape her adult life. As a Navy spouse, the rhythm of her days shifted with each new duty station. “Traveling with my ex-husband was nothing like living in PA. It consisted of friends who became our military family. Friends I am still in touch with after all these years. From all over the US and overseas. I was very fortunate to experience that.”

Four years in Sicily stand out as a highlight, “so family-oriented,” she says. Yet every move brought its challenges. “When he retired, he already had a job with the government, so he was still around his military people. I, on the other hand, found it hard to talk to civilians after being around my friends who knew the military lingo. But like everything else, we adapt eventually, and life goes on.”

The heart of Mianulli’s story is about finding her voice after years of emotional and mental abuse. She writes candidly about the doubts that kept her silent and the slow process of reclaiming her sense of self.

“Talk to someone about it. Find your person, someone you trust, and let it all out. Use all your resources. Just talking and letting someone know how you feel can be enough. If you feel compelled to talk to a therapist, don’t be afraid. Talking is healing,” she said. “It can get better, but you have to be willing to put in the work, and it doesn’t happen overnight. Make it part of your journey. You take the control back that was taken from you.”

Her honesty is what readers respond to most. “My only purpose of writing my book was to show others who may have been or are in a situation as I was there is hope and to never give up.” She acknowledges some people didn’t like seeing their stories told, but she has no regrets. “I knew from the start I would have a few readers who wouldn’t agree with why I was writing the book. But all in all, I am very pleased with the outcome and the support of many people.”

Mianulli’s life has always centered on helping others, from raising a family to running a business, to years of volunteer work. She has answered phones for abuse and suicide hotlines, accompanied victims to court, and supported hurricane relief efforts. “I am at my best when I am helping others. It feels right. There are so many who are less fortunate than others. I think that is something my mom instilled in us through the church.”

Now, she volunteers at the Samaritan House in Virginia Beach, a nonprofit that helps survivors of abuse and human trafficking find safety. “There are so many people that need our help, so many children, which is huge with me. For me, it’s the right thing to do.”

The hardest part, she says, was learning not to fear the truth. “I think in the beginning, I was hiding how our relationship was. I didn’t want people to know there were problems, but you can only do that for so long. Then you need to look at yourself and know a lot of it was a lie. I stopped telling people what I thought they wanted to hear and started telling the truth. It felt so much better to be telling people the truth. I felt a load being lifted from my shoulders.”

Finishing the book was an act of courage and a step toward a new future. “I think this book said everything I wanted to say; some of it was hurtful for others, but mostly, I was trying to heal and let people know there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I’ve lost people over it, and I knew that would happen. I just thought it was my time to tell my side of the story. But on the other hand, I have realized I’m stronger than I thought. It has given me more confidence and let me know there are still wonderful people in the world. If you look for them, you will find them.”

Her next project may look a little different. “My next adventure is to possibly write a children’s book. I think that would be a lot more fun.”

Debbie Pecht Mianulli’s story is not finished, but “Beneath the Starlit Sky” offers a place for others to start their own. Her message is simple, and it rings out clear: the truth can set you free. If you listen closely, you can hear a door opening, a life growing larger and the possibility of happiness on the other side.

“Beneath the Starlit Sky” is available on Amazon. Mianulli can be reached at debbiva1@yahoo.com.